Friday, March 21, 2008

hurray for easter. hurray for blogs.

So, it's Easter weekend..Hurray! I am about to head to the Lake (fun times) but realized I've yet to leave a blog for this week. I missed class on Tuesday :( but I really enjoyed class on Thursday and the discussions we got into. I have been thinking about Common Identity and Common Bonds in ftf groups and online groups, and trying to think which I have more of. I definitely think they are both important groups, and one needs to have both in their life. When you are dealing with the common identity, it is easier for one to open up about their interest (of that particular group) or their struggles (of that particular group i.e- addictions). However, I think the common bonds group is something that you can get an overall satisfaction. In a bond group you may not be as prone to open up fully about your obsession with cheese, addiction with coffee (that's mine), weight issues, etc... but I think it is an overall satisfaction of yourself. These are the people you interact best with and enjoy spending time with, and from the article you are more attracted to. Again, I think it is a positive to keep both common identity groups and common bond groups in one's life!
Happy Easter :)

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